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What Activities are Best For Your Child's Bedtime
What Activities are Best For Your Child's Bedtime Routine?
Sleep and arousal are opposite states, which is why helping children calm their arousal system before sleep makes the transition to sleep shorter and more peaceful.
Pre-bedtime activities that typically calm:
A consistent bedtime
Dimming lights
Massage
Low key talk time
Lullabies
Pre-bedtime activities that calm some children but alert others
Bath or shower
Reading
Pre-bedtime activities that generally alert rather than calm before sleep:
Erratic bedtimes
Bright lights
Wrestling, chasing and other vigorous activities
Watching Videos – even supposedly low-key ones
Rushing
High sugar snacks or food containing caffeine.
Each child is unique. The key is taking note of whether your child is calm after an activity – or more alert. For example, your child may love their bath, but it is a battle to get them out of the tub, or they love to read, but end up fighting for more books. If this is the case than these activities are alerting not calming your child and are best completed at least 60 minutes before lights out.